August 3, 2012

  • Bitch blocked me...

    EDIT:  I stand corrected, I did once address another post on my blog to a specific person.  That mainly started as responding to his post about me, where I didn't want to do such a lengthy comment so I put it here on my blog.  Then within a week or so, because I don't like the idea of doing entires aimed at specific people in the first place, I deleted it and went about my merry way and completely forgot about it until the person's name showed up in the comments on this entry.  So now I've fixed this entry and everyone is free to decide for themselves whether I lied about that or simply forgot about it - I really don't care because there are more important things to deal with.

    Everyone was right, if you don't agree with mtngirlsouth it doesn't matter how damn civil you are to her, she will block you - apparently she thinks by blocking you and ignoring the debate she won.  I managed to copy and paste her last response to me, but was unable to post my response back to her because like the child she is she blocked me - so here it is.  

    Her to Me:  

    @Melissa___Dawn - There we have it. I don't want to "call marriage a "civil union" for everyone but Christians". I want to call it a civil union for EVERYONE. Leave marriage as a sacred religious covenant. Keep the government out of religion, and vice versa. I also take issue with this CRAP about "I agreed with the other commenter on here that they are not issues, you just like to think they are." The fact that you only think it is an issue when you agree with it says a lot about YOU. People not being allowed free speech, the Bible being declared "hate speech" certainly are real issues. Mayers wanting to disallow certain businesses because of the CEO's religious beliefs are a REAL issue. If you refuse to acknowledge that, you are just being dishonest. And this is the very reason why people who think like me cannot have any kind of discussion with people who think like you. You are NOT interested in equality or liberty for ALL people. YOU are only interested in those with whom you agree.

    Which makes me think that what you really do want is to have the authority to throw us in jail, or an insane asylum. To make the Bible an illegal book. And since I have already stated clearly that I do not want two standards, but ONE for ALL that LEAVES my religion OUT of it, and yet you also ignore that, after this you shall be blocked. You have only succeeded in proving that you do not care about actual equality, are not interested in the rights and liberties of ALL people, and are perfectly happy to ignore anything that does not coincide with your imagined reality. Goodbye.

    My Response (that she won't see because she's afraid to face reality):  

    @mtngirlsouth - You just made yourself look like a complete fool. First of all, I already stated why the government isn't going to get out of "marriage". Second, even if it went that way, and Christians applied for and received both marriage and civil union certificates - that pretty much sums up exactly what I said would happen with keeping all non-Christians and gay Christians as second-class citizens. I agreed with the other commenter and did not respond because he already pointed out the flaws - do you really need it repeated again and again? I don't think so, 'cause you aren't going to see it that way and you will continue to agree with your own group. I agreed with him because HE WAS RIGHT. I've said multiple times that I do NOT agree with mayors being allowed to ban businesses because of their beliefs - and the fact of the matter is they aren't allowed to do that and if they tried the courts would step in and stop it. You can't just assume they won't and therefore halt all progress in this country. I don't give a rat's ass who agrees with me or not - law, especially constitutional law, is my passion and I very much agree with equal rights for all Americans.

    As to your second paragraph, you have got to be kidding me! You took me wanting equality for everyone to mean that I want to jail Christians or lock them up in insane asylums and ban the Bible?!?!? So now to want equal marriage rights for homosexuals is the same thing as wanting to ban Christianity?!? I don't want to do that, I don't care what you believe as long as you don't force me to believe the same thing by turning it into legislation everyone in this country must agree with. I don't want to jail you or put you in an insane asylum, but I do think you might benefit from a few psychotropic medications because if that is what you got out of what I said you are delusional. And you just proved what I've seen many others say about you - YOU are the one who cannot handle having anyone disagree with you and as soon as you're losing - you block them. For the record, failure to acknowledge the issue/debate does not mean you won.

    If anyone else still has access to her site and could copy and paste our entire exchange and email it to me at: melissadawn.dawn@gmail.com I would greatly appreciate it as I would love for all of it to be available here for everyone to make their own decision on the situation.

     

Comments (43)

  • Just sign out and then you can go to her sight.

  • @LadyboyRevolution - Thank you!!  So pissed at her lies right now I didn't think of that.  

  • Looking at the history of fundamentalism in America....neutrality & egalitarianism is a myth. Nobody would have a problem with a bunch of Joel Osteen's running around. Or Shimmer, she is a Christian.

  • @LadyboyRevolution - Agreed.  For the record, I would never have done this except her last response to me was so off the wall from what I was saying - and that is just so dishonest in my book to say such bullshit about someone else and then block them so they can't set the record straight or defend themselves against the blatant lies - it just shows how much of a coward she truly is.  

  • @Melissa___Dawn - been dealing with these people my entire life. This is a culture war.....you can follow the "rules" if you want....

  • @LadyboyRevolution - Hahaha, I only try to follow the rules until someone pulls a stunt like mtngirlsouth did.  I do believe in being civil and respectful, to a point, because there are plenty of people reading comments who never say anything and the possible effect our words have on them could be huge - better to let the opposition back themselves into a corner, which they often do.  I just spent the last half-hour/hour browsing through some of mtngirlsouth's other posts and comments.  If you take her one post at a time and don't read all the others you might give her more credit than she deserves, but start reading all her other posts and her stubborn opposition in the face of actual FACTS on many issues and you realize the only thing she's actually good at is copy&paste from unreliable sources, lol.  

    I also suspect the reason she went off the rails on my last comment, ranting about how I wanted to ban christianity and put christians in jail, was because she's just projecting what she'd like to do to homosexuals and atheists.  She's nothing more than a bigot using her religion to hide her inability to actually empathize with other human beings.  

  • @Melissa___Dawn - 

    ranting about how I wanted to ban
    christianity and put christians in jail, was because she's just
    projecting what she'd like to do to homosexuals and atheists.

    Bingo! But she doesn't come up with this stuff herself.

  • She blocked me once because she got mad at what I posted on MY page and that I wouldn't go along with her rants on MY page. Then she tried to claim it was a mistake when she got called out on it.

  • They were perfectly fine with using the government to enforce their beliefs for 200+ years, now suddenly everyone else wants the same rights and is willing to fight for them and they want the government to fuck off. Utter hypocrisy. 

  • I am curious - you said this: 

    "First of all, I already stated why the government isn't going to get out of "marriage"."

    What were your reasons why? 

  • @QuantumStorm - Sorry I know you are asking her. I have never seen the government give back anything once they own it. 

  • LadyboyRevolution - Actually, I have problem with the one Joel Osteen we have running around right now.....but maybe that's just me....

  • @JandJinJapan - I know and I know exactly what you are gonna say about that. No worries.

  • @QuantumStorm - We didn't get much into that since that wasn't the point we were debating, but my reasons were that to get government out of marriage altogether would strip everyone of rights already granted.  Ladyboyrevolution has a point as well, that once government is in something like that they aren't likely to pull back out.  I'm not saying it's a bad idea, it's just not the point we were arguing since I was asking her what specific right she would lose by legalizing same-sex marriage.  

    And I will be fair here, I think something got lost in translation.  I was  thinking her wish for civil unions and marriages was meaning that everyone else could have civil unions with all the same rights and Christians could have marriages with all the same rights.  When it was cleared up, what she wants are civil unions with all the rights, and marriages without rights and holding only a religious significance - meaning a double process for those wanting a marriage, which isn't entirely a bad idea per se, however, it still creates a "separate but equal" type of situation in my mind, but maybe not if everyone's legal "married" status were referred to as a civil union and "marriage/married" never entered on any of the legal documents.

  • You stated that you wouldn't want non-Christians and gays to be treated as second class citizens if they couldn't be given civil unions AND marriage.  If marriage is something just for the church, wouldn't that be you imposing your beliefs onto the Church, therefore disallowing them of their own beliefs?

    If I am misinterpreting your views, forgive me. 

    However.  You stated:
    "I don't care what you believe as long as you don't force me to believe the same thing by turning it into legislation everyone in this country must agree with."

    Isn't that exactly what you are doing by lobbying for the legalization of gay marriage?  It is no different. 

    And if my summary of your views in my first paragraph are correct, then indeed you DO want to punish Christians for their beliefs. 

    I've had plenty of disagreements with her.  I have never been blocked from her page.  I keep it cordial, polite, and do my best to express my views as best I can without twisting hers. 

    I read the exchange between the two of you.  You twisted her views and dismissed her concerns by just saying they are not issues.  When folks are arrested for reading the Bible, yet others can say what they want, it is indeed an issue.  Even if you don't think it is.  By denying someone a forum to speak their view, while denying another is NOT equal rights.  So by dismissing those concerns, you cannot, with all honesty, say you are for equal rights.

  • @JandJinJapan - Okay, I will openly admit that yes, I did respond to you in a blog entry on my blog in the past.  I'm pretty certain that's why you're here, to call me out on that and label me a liar, however, I simply forgot all about our little fiasco until I just saw your name here, and that's not the same as intentionally lying.  I would also bet you spent some time paging through my entries attempting to find that entry, which I had deleted a long while ago because I don't like the idea of having to do entries like this.  I don't know why you have friended and subscribed to me since we already had such a fiasco, but I have seen your "Traditional Values America" FB page and the hate spewed on that site all while reinforcing your right to own guns over and over again.  So if all you wanted was to start shit over something dead and forgotten, I fixed it, it's done.

  • somehow, i've never been blocked by her.  

  • @grim_truth - Making a separation by having everyone who isn't a christian get civil unions and christians get marriages would foster discrimination - it already has:  http://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_mars11.htm  Just because same-sex marriage is made legal doesn't mean that everyone has to believe it is "right" or "moral".  I am not legislating my religious belief by promoting marriage equality.  Christians are still free to believe it's wrong/immoral, and still free to preach it from their pulpits and deny marrying such couples in their houses of worship.  My mom was raised Catholic, but married a Lutheran and they were denied a Catholic marriage ceremony based on that and no one cried discrimination.  Mtngirlsouth posted links showing that wasn't the case, but her links had nothing to do with the issue of marriage equality and someone else had already pointed out what was wrong with the links.  I'm not saying that people wouldn't try to ban the Bible or whatever, they have been doing that since before the marriage equality issue and it gets struck down.  I don't believe in christianity, or god, but if the government tried to stop a church from preaching it's beliefs from it's pulpit I would side with the church even though I don't believe the same things.  Marriage is in the public sphere, not just churches.  For years and years and years atheists and non-christians have been married and it wasn't an issue until the homosexuals wanted it too.  The definition of marriage has been redefined more than once already.  

  • "Genius" say's in the first sentence:

    1.) Gays already have the same rights. "Genius" say's in the second sentence:

    2.) I never heard of DOMA () "Genius" says in third:

    3.) Get the government out.

    Sammy is a hypnotist like me. She is using the "confusion induction"

  • @LadyboyRevolution - Thankfully I'm not the only one who sees that she's the one who does the word-twisting and deflecting, and I hardly think it's simply an innocent misunderstanding.  I had one question I asked over and over, and others asked the same question and this wasn't the first time, yet she never once answered that question.

  • @Melissa___Dawn - Ok, thanks for clarifying.

    But please keep in mind, to some, it still does seem that by lobbying for the legalization of gay marriage, it's YOU who are trying to legislate YOUR verision of morals. 

    Folks have indeed been arrested for practicing religious beliefs that did not impede on other's rights.  We also have the issue of the mandate in "Obamacare" that requires birth control coverage.  That is without a doubt an infringement on the rights of the Church and the rights of members of the Church who own businesses that do not believe in birth control. 

    While her links may not have had anything to do with gay marriage, they certainly had plenty to do with the topic of her blog. 

  • @Melissa___Dawn - 

    Thankfully I'm not the only one who sees that she's the one who does the word-twisting and deflecting,

    OMG! Are you kidding??? I read everything WOW I couldn't believe what I was reading. Made me so happy I could shout! Why did it make me happy??? Because this is our competition which means there IS NO COMPETITION!!!

    I hardly think it's simply an innocent misunderstanding.

    I actually believe she is innocent. I don't believe for a second she is smart enough to do that on purpose.

  • @grim_truth - I'm not going to deal with the healthcare issue here, I've debated that before and it's not the issue at hand, but I will acknowledge your view on that, okay?  I do see your point in bringing it up here, I just think that's something else entirely and don't want to go off on a separate topic here.  And like you said, "folks have indeed been arrested for practicing religious beliefs that did not impede on other's rights."  No doubt that is true, but it didn't start happening simply because a group of people wanted marriage equality.  And I certainly don't condone it, like I said I would fight against any such cases even though I don't agree with the religion.  The solution isn't to ban civil liberties from certain groups, it's to fight against inequality, all inequality.  

    As for some viewing my lobbying for marriage equality as me trying to legislate my version of morals, yes, of course some see it that way - but that's not the case.  By allowing marriage equality nothing is taken away from those who believe it is immoral or a sin - they are still free to believe it is immoral and a sin, they are still free to marry someone of the opposite sex and follow their religious beliefs.  By not allowing marriage equality civil rights that are to be granted to all are denied to one group based on the religious belief that homosexuality is immoral and a sin.  It forces all of America to recognize and follow the rules of the god of one religion.  

  • @grim_truth -

    But please keep in mind, to some, it still
    does seem that by lobbying for the legalization of gay marriage, it's
    YOU who are trying to legislate YOUR verision of morals.

    DOMA-who is legislating???



  • @Melissa___Dawn - Actually I take that back! She knows God damn well NOW that Christian legislation (DOMA) has blocked me and my fiance from being together. She doesn't care one iota!!! She only cares about her own family

  • @LadyboyRevolution - It is irrelevant what gets passed.  What is relevant is what is lobbied in this discussion.

  • @Melissa___Dawn - I didn't see where she stated that the arrest began with gay marriage, but arrests have been made because of folks speaking out against gay marriage.  When that happens, equal rights no longer exist.  People are indeed using gay marriage to stifle religion. 

    The problem is this.

    You and @LadyboyRevolution have accused her of stifling equal rights.  Not true.  From what I saw in her post and her comments, she wants gov't out of marriage.  She wants civil unions for everyone.  Marriage would ONLY be a religious covenant. 

    You turned it into her being against equal rights because YOU say the gov't won't give marriage up.  Basically, you both agree on something, just disagree on how to get it.  And the whole while, you two are making it seem as if she is against equal rights, when she is not.

  • @grim_truth - She LOVES big government (Christian government). She's only backtracking now since the big government is not in her favor. She wasn't protesting DOMA was she??? 

  • @LadyboyRevolution - She also wasn't praising, was she?

  • @grim_truth - Are you kidding???  If it wasn't for me she wouldn't even know about DOMA and if she did know about DOMA and had the power she would vote DOMA in in an instant WITHOUT THINKING. Don't even try and tell me she wouldn't. Only lately (when it is too late) has she jumped on the RP bandwagon. Try to BS me hoss!!! I was pushing RP 10 years ago when you clowns were pushing Bush. TO LATE NOW......

  • @grim_truth - you go tell her to be CONSISTENT and repeal DOMA!!!

  • @grim_truth - If that were the topic we were discussing I would slightly agree, but it's not.  I conceded what she wanted was government out of marriage altogether, I also pointed out why that wasn't going to happen and why "separate but equal" is still discrimination and not equal.  All I wanted was an answer to the question "what right will you lose if same-sex marriage is legalized?"  Which she never answered.  And here's why she never answered:  http://mtngirlsouth.xanga.com/?uni53509532-direction=n&uni53509532-nextdate=4%2f25%2f2011+15%3a18%3a41.000#module-53509532  that is a link to her older blog post about free will - where she actually flat-out says "Gay marriage? Why not?" and then proceeds to make the point about not legislating morality.  

  • @grim_truth -

    DOMA-who is legislating??? Thank you for avoiding the question.

  • @LadyboyRevolution - You sent that to me by accident, didn't you?  lol.  I saw it in my email and thought "wait a minute, I didn't intend to ignore anyone's questions, what did I miss?"   :)

  • @Melissa___Dawn - I messaged you that on accident??? LOL Oops! :)

  • @grim_truth - I will repeat since you WILL "conveniently" FORGET:

    you go tell her to be CONSISTENT and repeal DOMA!!!

  • Ummm, actually, no, Melissa___Dawn I'm not here to call you out or anything else of the kind - and no, I haven't flipped through your pages looking for anything.  I just happened to see a quote on this thread recommended by someone else on my news feed on my own Xanga site.  I'm not here to call you or call you out on anything, but simply to respond to a quote by someone else.  I didn't even realize it was your site and your page until I saw your name there under your profile foto.  I honestly thought someone else was using the same profile foto that you are using.  Believe it or not, and take or leave it as you wish, but there it is.

    Have a great weekend...

  • Well, you might now what I'm gonna' or not gonna' say, LadyboyRevolution - but thanks for your reply all the same, and have a great weekend....

  • @JandJinJapan - Fair enough, I'm still glad I edited to correct the error because it wasn't intentional.  

  • I appreciate the sentiment, Melissa___Dawn - no harm done, and no offense taken.  Have a great weekend...

  • @JandJinJapan -

    but thanks for your reply all the same, and have a great weekend....


  • Some people like to accuse people of doing the very same thing they are doing so that it takes the attention off of themselves. For example, for years we have heard from those Christians that are anti gay that gays have a "homosexual agenda" and that gays are shoving their lifestyle down everybodys throats. Yet, gays are not the ones who are literally  going door to door trying to spread their agenda or putting  up billboards to spread their message. So the Christians persecute the gays and in turn accuse gays and gay supporters of doing the same to them.

    I think this is a pretty clear black and white issue. If somebody believes that a class of people deserves lesser rights than themselves, than those people are bigots, plain and simple.

  • She has never blocked me even when she passionately disagreed with me.  Maybe it is because I am hot.

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